"Don't Bring It Up"

Many people have wondered how Jennifer Hudson has coped with the tragic murders of her mother, brother, and nephew. Well, according to those close to her, she's good as long as you don't bring it up:

Hudson still does not talk about the murders, even with those closest to her. “I try not to say anything about it,” says her childhood friend and longtime assistant, Walter Williams III. “She’s okay as long as people don’t bring it up. She’s trying to put all of that behind her.”

People have different ways of coping with tragedy, and if that's her way of dealing with this then so be it. SOURCE